Comments on: A Drama Three Years in the Making http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/ Coming-of-age story about a girl and her city. Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:34:06 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Rosemary http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/comment-page-1/#comment-1036 Rosemary Thu, 02 Jul 2009 17:27:11 +0000 http://www.girlandcity.com/?p=620#comment-1036 Wow, that is definitely a lot happening in just one weekend. I agree with what others have said (and your final decision) - don't allow this to continue. Cheating will never make you happy, because you'll be the 'secret' girlfriend that can never be known. Like you said, why support him when you can be the lead? Personally I would say that breaking the news to him in person would be better, but it might also ignite some unwanted consequences too. Also, all the food looks delicious...I really like that water-sculpture-park area too. Wow, that is definitely a lot happening in just one weekend. I agree with what others have said (and your final decision) – don’t allow this to continue. Cheating will never make you happy, because you’ll be the ’secret’ girlfriend that can never be known. Like you said, why support him when you can be the lead? Personally I would say that breaking the news to him in person would be better, but it might also ignite some unwanted consequences too.

Also, all the food looks delicious…I really like that water-sculpture-park area too.

]]> By: SassyGirl http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/comment-page-1/#comment-878 SassyGirl Thu, 18 Jun 2009 17:33:50 +0000 http://www.girlandcity.com/?p=620#comment-878 Brunch is kind of a cult in our city. I'm not sure when or why it started, but I'm glad it's there. Big breakfasts are the best start to any day! Brunch is kind of a cult in our city. I’m not sure when or why it started, but I’m glad it’s there. Big breakfasts are the best start to any day!

]]> By: miku http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/comment-page-1/#comment-877 miku Thu, 18 Jun 2009 07:35:52 +0000 http://www.girlandcity.com/?p=620#comment-877 I'm the same boat Sassy. I’m the same boat Sassy.

]]> By: Daph http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/comment-page-1/#comment-874 Daph Thu, 18 Jun 2009 02:12:37 +0000 http://www.girlandcity.com/?p=620#comment-874 He sounds like a great friend, but you really do come across as a pretty strong-minded girl who has more sass (if you'll excuse the pun!) to be tied down with someone who's a bit clingy- loved your last line btw! Also, I was practically drooling over every single breakfast photo in this post. Where do you get brekky like that?! In Australia, 75% of the places don't even give you a hash brown with a big breakfast, and yet I see glorious varieties of deep-fried potato in almost all our pics!!! *drools* He sounds like a great friend, but you really do come across as a pretty strong-minded girl who has more sass (if you’ll excuse the pun!) to be tied down with someone who’s a bit clingy- loved your last line btw!

Also, I was practically drooling over every single breakfast photo in this post. Where do you get brekky like that?! In Australia, 75% of the places don’t even give you a hash brown with a big breakfast, and yet I see glorious varieties of deep-fried potato in almost all our pics!!! *drools*

]]> By: SassyGirl http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/comment-page-1/#comment-870 SassyGirl Thu, 18 Jun 2009 01:10:25 +0000 http://www.girlandcity.com/?p=620#comment-870 Very good analysis Courtney, and I agree with you 100%. There is nothing for me to gain from this "relationship" except emotional complication. I am ending this! I just don't know if I should call him or go see him this weekend (I wouldn't be staying with him of course). Very good analysis Courtney, and I agree with you 100%. There is nothing for me to gain from this “relationship” except emotional complication. I am ending this!

I just don’t know if I should call him or go see him this weekend (I wouldn’t be staying with him of course).

]]> By: SassyGirl http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/comment-page-1/#comment-869 SassyGirl Thu, 18 Jun 2009 01:09:13 +0000 http://www.girlandcity.com/?p=620#comment-869 Do people even buy novels anymore? I feel like I am the last person of my generation to still read actual books, and I get all mine from the library :P Do people even buy novels anymore? I feel like I am the last person of my generation to still read actual books, and I get all mine from the library :P

]]> By: Courtney http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/comment-page-1/#comment-867 Courtney Wed, 17 Jun 2009 22:27:41 +0000 http://www.girlandcity.com/?p=620#comment-867 Ok, I have a couple thoughts on this. I don't think that being involved in cheating is in anyway ok, even if you're the third party and you're not instigating it. Should you decide to go forward with this, you need to make him break up with his girlfriend. But you know, I don't think you should. I believe you've said before you like the cute moments with HB, but you don't feel like the relationship would go anywhere. Clearly you do not like him as much as he does you, which will only tire you and hurt him, but not only that, I think it's been clear this whole time you still harbor the most feelings for MFL. (Or Y[our]FL?) As things are right now, I don't think HB would help you get over those lingering feelings, so I don't think there's really anything to gain from being with him now, unless you really just want to while away the time. But again, I think the nature of your relationship, and I feel he will break down again, will make that pleasant whiling away less and less possible. He clearly wants things from you that you do not want to give him, down to your words of love. I just can't see this leading anywhere positive for either of you. Also, I agree with Miku. Write a novel of your adventures, I feel like every girl could relate to it; and you have such a way of writing that it makes those who read feel like close friends. Ok, I have a couple thoughts on this. I don’t think that being involved in cheating is in anyway ok, even if you’re the third party and you’re not instigating it. Should you decide to go forward with this, you need to make him break up with his girlfriend. But you know, I don’t think you should. I believe you’ve said before you like the cute moments with HB, but you don’t feel like the relationship would go anywhere. Clearly you do not like him as much as he does you, which will only tire you and hurt him, but not only that, I think it’s been clear this whole time you still harbor the most feelings for MFL. (Or Y[our]FL?) As things are right now, I don’t think HB would help you get over those lingering feelings, so I don’t think there’s really anything to gain from being with him now, unless you really just want to while away the time. But again, I think the nature of your relationship, and I feel he will break down again, will make that pleasant whiling away less and less possible. He clearly wants things from you that you do not want to give him, down to your words of love. I just can’t see this leading anywhere positive for either of you.
Also, I agree with Miku. Write a novel of your adventures, I feel like every girl could relate to it; and you have such a way of writing that it makes those who read feel like close friends.

]]> By: miku http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/comment-page-1/#comment-866 miku Wed, 17 Jun 2009 20:29:58 +0000 http://www.girlandcity.com/?p=620#comment-866 Also, I advise you to write a novel. It would be a seller. Also, I advise you to write a novel. It would be a seller.

]]> By: Mimi http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/comment-page-1/#comment-865 Mimi Wed, 17 Jun 2009 16:26:03 +0000 http://www.girlandcity.com/?p=620#comment-865 Oh GOODNESS, does this sound like me and my ex, except we both had a girlfriend/boyfriend already (I realized what I was doing and stopped though, thank God). Cheating is never a slope you should go down on, no matter how you might feel in the moment, because the stress/worry/guilt/crap you will feel afterwards will make this so not worth it. I hope you guys work things out soon! All asides, PL sounds like a bitch and hypocrite with a stick up her butt. Someone needs to tell her STFU. Oh GOODNESS, does this sound like me and my ex, except we both had a girlfriend/boyfriend already (I realized what I was doing and stopped though, thank God). Cheating is never a slope you should go down on, no matter how you might feel in the moment, because the stress/worry/guilt/crap you will feel afterwards will make this so not worth it. I hope you guys work things out soon!

All asides, PL sounds like a bitch and hypocrite with a stick up her butt. Someone needs to tell her STFU.

]]> By: Pursuit of Matching Accessories http://www.girlandcity.com/2009/06/a-drama-three-years-in-the-making/comment-page-1/#comment-864 Pursuit of Matching Accessories Wed, 17 Jun 2009 15:08:03 +0000 http://www.girlandcity.com/?p=620#comment-864 Oh and the breakfasts are making me hungry! Oh and the breakfasts are making me hungry!

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