Comments on: Growing up, moving forward

By: Britt

Britt — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 05:16:55 +0000

OMG this part gave me chills: I don’t know how this information makes me feel. Happy, that this is not easy for him either. Confused, because what does it mean if he feels the need to get away? Unhappy, for feeling anything at all.

I know EXACTLY what that feels like.

Family is definitely important. I’ve never gone through a long period of not talking to my parents, but we’ve definitely had some dark points in our relationship. Even so, I couldn’t imagine my life without them right now.

I’m glad you had a good time with your parents! They may not always show it, but they care :)

By: connie

connie — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 00:18:54 +0000

i really admire your ability to reflect on yourself as you have in this post. i think it shows more growth than you are giving yourself credit for. i know that you see now that your parents were there your entire life without being asked to love you – that they do it unconditionally – but you should also see that this is not a one way street. to some extent, they must know that, as their daughter, you, too, love them for everything they have done, and of course you are appreciative for all of the love they have given you. though it doesn’t hurt to let them know by spelling it out, i wouldn’t worry too much since they know already.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 22:14:58 +0000

Aww, as I have grown older I too have started to realize the importance of family. It’s amazing how your perspectives can change so much.

Love the photos–gorgeous! :)

By: tiara

tiara — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 21:54:17 +0000

this is such a sweet post! I always live with my parents, always, that sometimes Ithink I really should try to live by my own, I mean… I will, sooner or later, and so I need to practice first, right?

And it’s so precious how you realize the importance of your family =) sometimes I (or we all) do forget about this simple things, just like… the saying; you’ll never miss the water until it’s gone.

By: Nikolett

Nikolett — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 21:51:00 +0000

I’ve known a lot of friends that don’t realize the impact and importance of family until their mid-20s, and then they think it’s too late. It’s never too late … there’s still so much time to fill up with a ‘thank you’ and to show them your gratitude, and there’s still so much time to rattle through your emotions and realize what you want in life. I’m sure you’ll be able to say all that you need to say in person, one day :) All in your own timing.

By: Jaime | Fast Times

Jaime | Fast Times — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 16:57:26 +0000

Gosh. I hated the ages of 19-24. HATED them. It’s a time of such transition and self exploration, a time of being unsure. The only thing I’ve come to appreciate about that time in my life is that I learned a lot about life and even more about myself. I’m still learning, every year for me is a quest to grow up, to move forward, to learn about life and myself.

We never stop learning. We never stop growing up and moving on. It’s what makes life so great and so hard. Rest assured that while it’s not the most comfortable place in the world, you’re right where you should be. :]

By: LiLu

LiLu — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 16:53:14 +0000

Realizing it is the first step, no? :-)

By: Kim

Kim — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 08:20:24 +0000

That sounds so pleasant and cute. Uni is really about growing up, and I totally agree about telling all these things to the people about whom you write. I mean… I wish I could say sorry to my mom for talking back to her because I didn’t mean it. But I know your parents know you love them :)

By: miku

miku — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 20:44:32 +0000

You’ll do all of these things in time. I am sure of it. Be strong!