Comments on: Will you have my baby?

By: PinkLovesParis

PinkLovesParis — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 14:59:55 +0000

ok…i don’t know why girls get so iffy about babies. i mean i want to have babies ONE day and survive and not have postnatal depression.

i’m NOT god with fluctuating hormones…and come on, is really hard and unnatural to give up YOUR baby. It was in you for 9 months – it’s yours. what if i go postnatal on my friend when she takes the kid?! not to mention the stretch marks and weight gain.

jeez! about the girls who get SO serious :P you were in a funny situation girl :P

By: DolceAri

DolceAri — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 20:07:44 +0000

No way in HELL.
Like you, I don’t even want to carry my OWN baby – and will most likely adopt.
HELL NO.
I love my friends, I REALLY do…and I would go to the ends of the earth for them – but I think surrogacy is on my list (short, SHORT list – mind you) of things I will NOT volunteer to do for them,
Haha, I’m kind of surprised at there reaction. I mean really? Come on now.
I think Meghan ^ puts it best.

By: SassyGirl

SassyGirl — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 20:47:38 +0000

That’s exactly what I was thinking. There are plenty of adorable little unwanted boys and girls looking for a good home. It’s a good way to help the population crisis anyway.

By: Meghan

Meghan — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 04:15:03 +0000

Your uterus is not a car for friends to lease at their neccesity. That’s just my thoughts.

By: MonsteRawr

MonsteRawr — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 23:43:46 +0000

No, no, nonono, nononononono.
The reasons that my husband and I do not want kids, but one of them is because I have no desire to have my body destroyed by a small creature living in my vagina.

For that matter, it was pretty rude of your friends to put you on the spot like that, especially if they were going to take it personally. Besides, if they really can’t have a kid, why don’t they just adopt? There a plenty of kids just lying around, waiting for someone to take them home.

By: MODG

MODG — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 19:33:45 +0000

WOAH. NOT cute dinner conversation. That is insane?!

I am with you btw. I’m barely interested in carrying my own baby.

By: nashe

nashe — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 12:46:25 +0000

Well I think it’s all a matter of mindset. Everyone would MIND carrying someone else’s baby, but everyone has different levels of ‘caring’, so to speak. Those who are more ‘caring’ and selfless would be up to it.

But ah well I’m Muslim and the surrogacy procedure is unallowed, so that kinda makes the choice for me. I still wouldn’t do it, though.. coz I know I’ll be the type to wanna keep it for myself at the end. If the topic comes up again, maybe you could tell them that you’d prolly find it VERY hard to part with the baby, so they better not risk it with you.

By: Kristine

Kristine — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 23:20:21 +0000

Strange… My ex-best friend asked me that same question a while back. I said “Yes” because I didn’t think I would mind being the “oven” for her since she was my best friend. After all the drama that occurred between us, I asked myself why I even bothered with her.

Either way, nothing’s gonna happen because we don’t even talk anymore.

But yeah, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with saying no because what she’s asking for is a big deal.

By: Courtney

Courtney — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 00:12:42 +0000

Maybe they thought it was alright to bring up that kind of topic since you’re old friends, but I still find it kind of uncalled for, so suddenly, and a bit rude she just assumed you’d say yes. It’s a pretty big frikkin’ responsibility and it’s not something you should ever be pushed into. It’s your own body being abused from the inside for 9 months, for goodness sakes!

By: Danette

Danette — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 08:10:35 +0000

Hm… I don’t even want my own baby. But I guess if it’s for my best friend, I probably would.