I forgot Valentine’s Day

18 Feb

I missed Valentine’s Day this year.
It wasn’t until I read the blogs of my Internet friends that I was reminded of the fact. By then, Valentine’s Day had already passed.

I don’t make it a point to “celebrate” Valentine’s Day. However, in the past, it was the anniversary of MFL and I, so it was always announced with suitable fanfare. Even after I broke up with MFL, Valentine’s Day has never gone unnoticed (despite my feeble protests). I have always received attention from a gentleman on Valentine’s Day, short-lived as some of those attentions were.

This year was the first Valentine’s Day where I received nothing. No phone calls, no roses, no chocolates – not even a heart-shaped card.

You’d think I’d be disappointed, since one of my New Year resolutions was to spend this Valentine’s Day with someone I was actually interested in. And I am – a little disappointed – now that I think about it.

But I didn’t even notice.

This year’s Valentine’s Day coincided with Chinese New Year, which is a much more important event to me than Valentine’s Day. I was so concentrated on Chinese New Year festivities that I completely forgot about Valentine’s Day. All the better, it seems, considering the circumstances.

Instead, I celebrated Chinese New Year with an abundance of good food and good cheer.

I may have missed Valentine’s Day, but I don’t miss it.

5 Responses to “I forgot Valentine’s Day”

  1. imerika 18. Feb, 2010 at 7:49 pm #

    I may have missed Valentine’s Day, but I don’t miss it.

    love that line.

    even tho i had a date this v-day…i STILL hate Vday. I’m bitter for always making me feel inadequate when i was single. and no amount of lovey dovey vdays will ever make up for it…down with vday!

  2. Walking on Sunshine 18. Feb, 2010 at 8:48 pm #

    Valentine’s Day is overrated anyway… LOL

  3. herding Cats 19. Feb, 2010 at 12:00 am #

    Meh, Valentine’s is overrated, and I’ve spend many of them alone. I always tend to do nice things for myself on V-day. Having a guy is nice, but not the most important thing.

  4. Danette 19. Feb, 2010 at 4:09 pm #

    Overrated it may be, but this WAS the first year I had a boyfriend to spend it with :3

    Although because of New Year’s we couldn’t go out. Poo.

    Still. :3

  5. Spatzi 20. Feb, 2010 at 2:07 pm #

    Huzzah! You had a wonderful time, for a reason important to you, and it wasn’t tainted by disappointed (though perhaps a mere trifle so after the fact.) Sounds like a winner to me. :)

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